Diane Keaton usually mentioned her choice to by no means marry regardless of courting a few of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelors within the Nineteen Seventies.
“In the present day I used to be fascinated about this. I’m 73 and I feel I’m the one one in my era, and perhaps earlier than, who has been a single lady all her life,” she instructed Individuals in 2019.
The actress — who died at age 79 on October 11 — had a number of excessive profile relationships along with her Hollywood costars early in her profession. Keaton was a muse for actor-director Woody Allen throughout their few years collectively as a pair, along with courting her Godfather and Reds costars Al Pacino and Warren Beatty, respectively.
Keaton grew to become a mom comparatively late in life when she adopted two youngsters, daughter Dexter and son Duke, in her 50s however by no means felt the necessity to tie the knot.
Preserve scrolling for a glance again at Keaton’s feedback on why she by no means married.
The Proper Factor
Keaton supplied a blunt response in a 1996 ABC Information interview when requested why she “by no means received married.”
“I feel I by no means received married as a result of I didn’t wish to get married,” Keaton replied. “I didn’t select to get married and the those who I used to be with, it was finest that we weren’t married. I did the correct factor.”
An Oddball
Chatting with Individuals in 2019, Keaton recommended marriage could by no means have labored for her as a result of she thought of herself to be an outsider.
“I feel that I’m unusual,” she quipped. “I don’t know something, and I haven’t realized. Getting older hasn’t made me wiser.”
Keaton argued that there was “one thing lacking in me” and {that a} husband would wish somebody who “nurtured” them, which she was not able to.

Diane Keaton in November 2019. Charley Gallay/Getty Photographs for Netflix
“I’m an odd ball,” she confessed. “I keep in mind in the future in highschool, this man got here as much as me and stated, ‘At some point you’re going to make an excellent spouse.’ And I believed, ‘I don’t wish to be a spouse. No.’”
‘Seduced By Expertise’
The First Wives Membership actress pushed again towards the disparaging concept that she could have been “unhappy” about by no means marrying.
“[I’m not sad] as a result of I feel that I wanted extra of a maternal facet,” she instructed Individuals. “I don’t assume it will have been a good suggestion for me to have married, and I’m actually glad I didn’t, and I’m positive they’re completely satisfied about it, too.”
She added, “Once I was younger, I used to be trying to be beloved by these extraordinary individuals. I feel I shouldn’t have been so seduced by expertise. Once you’re each doing the identical job, it’s not so nice. I ought to have discovered only a good human being, sort of a household man.”
Conflicted Emotions
Chatting with YouTuber Kjersti Flaa in 2019, Keaton examined whether or not she was “actually being sincere” when she stated she by no means needed to “be somebody’s spouse.”
“I did say that and typically I feel that’s not likely proper,” she admitted. “I feel, in summary, it might need been a very good concept to be married as a result of I feel it actually is a crucial, great establishment for individuals to get collectively and keep collectively and dwell collectively. I don’t assume I had it in me, although.”
Keaton recommended it will have been “taxing” to have “had the function [her] mom had” as a housewife.
“I didn’t need that. I didn’t wish to have my mom’s function,” she insisted. “I noticed that she had loads of ambition that she couldn’t understand due to 4 youngsters and a husband within the ‘50s.”
‘A Totally different Form of Love’
Keaton confused in that 2019 interview that, “since marriage by no means actually occurred,” she developed “a distinct type of love” for different individuals in her life.
“I actually love the household that I’ve … these individuals are actually, actually necessary to me and my buddies,” she added.
Preferrred Husband
Whereas Keaton usually gave considerate responses when discussing marriage, she as soon as light-heartedly contemplated whether or not one Hollywood hunk would possibly change her thoughts.
“Who’s gonna [marry me]?” she joked on The Ellen Degeneres Present in 2015, earlier than replying: “Wait, oh. Channing Tatum?”
After host Ellen Degeneres broke the unhealthy information that Tatum was married on the time to Jenna Dewan, Keaton had a tongue-in-cheek grievance: “Channing Tatum is definitely married to another person… not me?”