In 2023, Selena Gomez was vocal about having fun with her single life, usually poking enjoyable at her relationship standing on TikTok and even releasing her track “Single Quickly.” On the time, she shut down hypothesis about her love life regardless of being briefly linked to Drew Taggart of The Chainsmokers, insisting she was fortunately unattached.
Quick ahead to in the present day, and every little thing has modified. Selena is now married to file producer Benny Blanco, confirming their romance in late 2023 earlier than tying the knot in 2025. The pair, who had identified one another for years by music collaborations, turned their friendship right into a love story that has captured followers’ hearts.
All through 2023, Selena Gomez, 31, has not shied away from sharing her single relationship standing. Nevertheless, the singer and actress lately confirmed that she and file producer Benny Blanco are courting.
Whereas Selena’s relationship historical past contains high-profile romances with stars like Justin Bieber, The Weeknd, and others, she’s now centered on her new chapter with Benny. Have a look again at her courting historical past and the way she discovered lasting love.
Nick Jonas
Again after they have been younger Disney stars, Selena and Nick Jonas had a cute little romance that began in 2008 after he broke up with Miley Cyrus. Selena even performed Nick’s love curiosity within the Jonas Brothers’ 2008 music video, “Burnin’ Up.” Sadly, the romance didn’t final very lengthy. And in 2015, Selena remembered the harmless fling as “pet love, you realize, it was very candy.”
Taylor Lautner
One other considered one of Selena’s earliest studs was none apart from Twilight star Taylor Lautner! They met in 2009 whereas filming films in Vancouver (Selena was taking pictures Ramona and Beezus and Taylor was taking pictures Twilight: New Moon).
“Kristen [Stewart] was staying in my resort. [Taylor] would go to her, so we have been consistently working into one another within the foyer—and we ended up assembly,” Selena defined in a 2009 interview with Seventeen. “We might exit to lunch and dinner, however I knew he had paparazzi following him and I had paparazzi following me. So we actually simply wished to hang around, go bowling and stuff, and it went somewhat too far, I feel. Individuals have been getting somewhat loopy about us.” Nevertheless, Selena confirmed she was single by the point of her Seventeen interview. Her finest pal, Taylor Swift, went on to this point Taylor for a number of months later that yr.
Zedd
The “Naturally” songstress additionally had a short fling with internationally identified DJ Zedd, whom she dated at first of 2015 after assembly at a recording studio. The 2 labored collectively on the track “I Need You To Know,” which was launched in Feb. 2015. Forward of the track’s launch, they teased the collaboration with flirty social media posts.
“He’s this cute little German, and he’s acquired actually lovely eyes and he’s very candy and humorous,” Selena gushed on the time. She additionally referred to as Zedd “proficient” in an interview. By April, the 2 had referred to as it quits, however remained on good phrases. “I like [him] quite a bit and I positively had a factor with him, which was good,” Selena admitted in July 2015.
Selena additionally sparked romance hypothesis with One Route singer Niall Horan in 2015 (after which once more in 2019), and with Pirates of the Caribbean star Orlando Bloom in 2014 and 2016! Nevertheless, Selena denied the romance hypothesis for the final two (Niall additionally denied the years-long rumors in 2020).
Charlie Puth
Selena and Charlie Puth collaborated on the observe “We Don’t Discuss Anymore” in 2016, however there was some speaking between the 2 happening behind the scenes. “I don’t kiss and inform, however the one approach a track like [‘We Don’t Talk Anymore’] can come throughout as actual is that if there’s one thing else happening behind the scenes,” Charlie mentioned in an interview with Billboard. “And that’s what was occurring [with Gomez]. Very short-lived, very small, however very impactful. And it actually messed me up. I’m making an attempt to place this the easiest way doable: It wasn’t like I used to be the one particular person on her thoughts. And I feel I knew that stepping into — what I used to be getting myself into.”
In a while, nevertheless, a supply near Selena shared with PEOPLE that the 2 “by no means dated.”
Justin Bieber
Selena’s two most well-known relationships have been with Justin Bieber and The Weeknd. If there may be one superstar couple that defines what on-again, off-again means it’s Selena and Justin. They sparked courting rumors in 2010 after hanging out at IHOP collectively, and the connection grew to become official in 2011 with a pink carpet look on the Vainness Honest Oscars Occasion (adopted by many extra dates at high-profile occasions).
The 2 have been on and off till 2018. In between their “on” moments, they each dated different folks. After all, for Justin, a kind of ladies was Hailey Bieber, who he ultimately married. Justin and Selena have been linked within the fall of 2017 and starting of 2018, however cut up for good that March. CLICK HERE for a full timeline of their love.
The Weeknd
Selena and The Weeknd dated for 10 months in 2017. The 2 first met on the 2015 Victoria’s Secret Trend Present after they each carried out on the catwalk. It wasn’t till Jan. 2017, although, that they have been first linked romantically after being noticed on a dinner date in L.A. The outing was adopted by extra sightings, in addition to a visit to Italy later that month, the place they went Instagram official.
The exes made their relationship very public by attending the Met Gala collectively in Could 2017. Additionally they went to Coachella collectively that spring. “It’s actually exhausting once I would need to spend a lot time hiding issues,” Selena admitted throughout an interview with On Air With Ryan Seacrest in July 2017. “It’s an excessive amount of stress, and I feel everybody will get over every little thing ultimately … I simply need to be completely happy. If that’s me simply being myself, then I don’t actually care.”
The 2 ultimately referred to as it quits in October 2017, however Selena mentioned that they ended on good phrases. “One thing that I’m actually happy with is that there’s such a real friendship [between us]” she informed Billboard in Nov. 2015. “I actually have by no means skilled something like that in my life. We ended it as finest pals, and it was genuinely about encouraging and caring [for each other], and that was fairly exceptional for me.”
In March 2018, The Weeknd launched his My Expensive Melancholy EP, and there appeared to be many references to Selena. On the observe “Name Out My Title,” he even hinted that he supplied to donate his kidney to her when she wanted a transplant the earlier summer season. “I virtually lower a chunk of myself on your life,” he sings within the track.
In August 2023, Selena denied that her new track “Single Quickly” was about The Weeknd. “Couldn’t be extra false,” she mentioned on to Hollywood Life on Instagram.
Drew Taggart
In Jan. 2023, it was reported that Selena and The Chainsmokers’ Drew Taggart have been “casually” courting. “They aren’t making an attempt to cover their romance by sneaking round at members solely golf equipment,” an insider informed Us Weekly, including that their new romance is “very informal and low-key.” They “go bowling and to the flicks” after they spend time collectively, the supply added.
Selena may be very “affectionate” with the rocker, the insider famous, and he or she “can hardly hold her palms off him”. Total, they’re “having a whole lot of enjoyable collectively”, the insider mentioned on the time. Whereas they have been photographed in public collectively a handful of occasions, although, the romance shortly fizzled out, with Selena insisting that she was “single” by the tip of the month.
Benny Blanco
In December 2023, Selena confirmed she was courting file producer Benny after months of hypothesis. When PopFactions shared a submit captioned, “Selena Gomez seemingly confirms she’s in a relationship,” the Disney Channel alum responded with a easy, “Information.” Across the similar time, she additionally “favored” a number of posts concerning the couple on Instagram, additional fueling pleasure about their budding romance.
The pair already had a historical past of working collectively, having collaborated on Selena’s 2019 observe “I Can’t Get Sufficient.” In response to on-line chatter about her love life, Selena revealed that she and Benny had truly been courting for about six months by then, placing the beginning of their romance round June 2023. Benny even jumped into the feedback of considered one of Selena’s Instagram posts on the time, leaving a flirty heart-eyes emoji.
As their relationship deepened, Selena spoke extra overtly about him in interviews, calling Benny “the perfect factor that’s ever occurred to me” and praising his capacity to make her really feel safe and beloved outdoors of the highlight. The couple made red-carpet appearances collectively, and their chemistry shortly gained over followers who celebrated seeing Selena completely happy in a steady, grounded relationship.
By September 2025, Selena and Benny had tied the knot in a romantic ceremony in Santa Barbara, California, surrounded by shut family and friends.
